Rewire Desire2023-03-08T15:08:38+00:00

Rewire your desire

Break the Cycle; Become who you want to be

Psst, this course only just lunched, so there might be a few bugs. If you do find any, please let me know. AND if you use code ** until 30 April 2023 it is 50% off.

Sex is about seeking our own pleasure, whatever that might be

I love sex, been doing it for years. So it shocked me when I first entered this world of ‘sexology’ about how much I DIDN’T KNOW and about how much better it could be.

The subject of sex comes with its own tripwires. We’ve been told for years, probably since we were born, that sex happens behind closed doors, not to talk about it, not to share our problems.

We avoid the topic of sex because the limited teaching we receive is the flashing red lights of danger. Beware, beware, beware! We’ve never been taught to enjoy it and use it to seek our own pleasure.

During Rewire YOUR Desire we look at sex factually (as well as emotionally), scientifically, informatively and importantly straightforwardly! Learning about sex is the same as learning about anything in life. And when we put that learning into practice, the magic happens!

  • Get a better understanding of who you are as a whole body person, sex, health and wellbeing.

  • Invigorate your relationship with yourself and others, mentally and physically

  • Take small steps that won’t overwhelm you, and learn about a world that needs to stop being taboo!

  • Probably, most importantly, take action to make a change, break the cycle, and realise your pleasure potential!

Is this for you?

This course is designed for women in mind, because I am one, because I specialise in female desire. It is designed for busy individuals, for those who know that sex is enjoyable but no idea why most of the time it feels like hard work.

It is designed to help and support, to teach sex positive information AND to give you actions to take away and ‘do’.

It is about having fun and immersing ourselves in a world that we bury in taboo!

So if you are looking for light-heartedness, straightforward positive information, a boundary-nudging safe space – you are where you need to be.

However, if any of what you’ve read so far feels triggering, then this is likely not for you. I’d be happy to help point you in the right direction to get you started down this journey, drop me an email.

How does it work?

The modules are designed to support you discovering more about your own sexuality. And that includes looking at the world of sex as a woman, the science and facts that get overlooked and taking some action!

The videos will guide you through uncovering your own personal story, show you how to make changes and look at things with sex positivity.

Some things are core learning, others are designed to give you a bit of insight and be thought-provoking!

At the end of the day, it works to support you entering into this world of sex with an open-mind, perhaps with seeing things a little differently, and how to make you more comfortable.

What are we talking about

Inside the course you’ll find modules broken down into sections. We will be covering topics including:

Answering a few questions…

Is this for women (vulva owners) only?2022-09-30T10:08:52+01:00

Right now, yes! The space I’ve created is for exploration of female sexuality, which also encourages more open communication.

Do I need to have a sexual concern for this to benefit me?2022-09-30T10:08:38+01:00

Absolutely not! In fact, my own story and those I work with, come from a place of being pro-active in our sex-lives and relationships, rather than reactive. Growth and exploration is important, and this is a great space to do this!

Is this suitable for me if I’ve suffered a sexual trauma in the past?2022-09-30T10:07:49+01:00

If you have worked through your trauma with a therapist and no longer feel triggered by any of the experiences, then yes this is a safe space. But please be aware, I have a positive and humorous way of teaching and guiding, which means it may still not be suitable for you. If you are unsure, then I would be happy to have a chat with you before hand, drop me an email at

What will show on my bank statement?2022-09-30T10:08:05+01:00

Sexucation is my trading name, but my accounts are all under J Staniforth Coaching, so sex won’t be splashed all over your statements.

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