My Vision
positive, up-to-date, relevant sex education, for the best journey into adulthood and beyond!
Jessica Staniforth CSC
21st Century Sex Educator, Certified Sex Coach and Mum
I’ve spent over a thousand hours studying sexology, including teachings directly from two of the top sex coaches in America – Patti Britton and Layla Martin – and sex therapists here in the UK, so that I can support and educate you on all the nuances of sex. Which there are many!
I remember struggling to find information that wasn’t superficial, designed to shock or make me feel inadequate. I wanted information about how my body worked, how to communicate better about how I was feeling and wanted, why I wanted sex one minute but not the next. No-one taught me about sex, not really, they taught me how to not get pregnant, not get an STI. I wish I was a taught that there is ‘no normal’ and we should stop comparing ourselves!
I now spend my days doing just this for others, providing the information we need, to make sex and relationships stronger, more connected and in the end, more exciting and pleasurable.
Our core values and Beliefs
To Be, and continue to be, curious
I believe in the importance of asking ‘why’. I believe that a curious mind, one that keeps asking questions is one that evolves and grows, discovering the true purpose and pleasures.
The value being here with you is to encourage you to ask why, and to create a home environment where asking ‘why’ and being curious is normal and supported.
that knowledge is best shared
We have a habit of holding ourselves back, not going deep enough, and perhaps as parents not sharing our knowledge with our children. To protect them, absolutely, but perhaps we are simply protecting ourselves.
I believe that sharing mistakes, being open, sharing knowledge and being positive, will break the cycle, meaning more support for mental health, and more understanding of pleasure.
That parents do not take enough responsbility
Perhaps a hard one to swallow. However, my belief is that we, as parents, do not take enough responsibility when it comes to getting our children ‘ready’ for life. School gets them ready for a work-life, but WE need to get them prepared for the rest.
My values are for us to help support this new way of thinking, that we CAN take responsibility and we WILL do well.
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