You, Better & Best Sex

The doors for my coaching programme will be open 8 February 2021.

This is the very first exciting launch of this signature programme. Check out more about the amazing content below, and make sure you sign-up to the waitlist to be reminded of cart opening.

Where do I begin, in my world there is so much to teach, so much to experience and enjoy that I want to share EVERYTHING with you!

I’m going to start at the beginning, and join you for a journey to becoming sex positive, sex informed and sex aware.

Learning about myself was a life-changer for me, it has been a life-changer for many people I know, and it will be a life-changer for you.

Quick note – if you are looking for a formal, straight laced, humourless way of learning, I’m sorry, I’m not for you!

Do any of these sound like you?

  • Has sex changed with your partner over the years? From hot and heavy, to hard work and a responsibility? Has your relationship nearly become sexless?

  • Do you struggle to get alone time from your children, and when you do just want to sleep because sex seems like too much like hard work.

  • Have you ever masturbated in secret and then felt guilty about it, because you should be having sex with your partner, not wasting it.

  • In fact, do you feel guilty in general about not fulfilling your ‘wifely (or partner) responsibilities’

  • Has sex been painful, you just want to get it over and done with.

  • Has your partner ever wanted you to ‘try’ something and you’ve either done it and felt awful for it, or rejected them outright and hurt their feelings.

  • Does the light stay off during intimate moments, because there are wobbles, bumps, lumps and orange peel that wasn’t there before?

  • Do you want to try something exciting and new, but worried that you’ll be laughed at? Or your girlfriends are telling you about this sex toy they’ve been using and it is amazing, yet your partner has always given the impression that they are not wanted in the bedroom.

  • Has your partner ever suggested an experience with other people (maybe a threesome, a sex club, even watching porn together), but you shot it down and locked it tight.

You might recognise yourself in all, or some of these!

They are all perfectly normal reactions, situations and issues that many women will have experienced. Even me!!

Why? Because we are lacking in education, genuine information and support in our societies and communities. Because great sex is seen as a luxury, something for those without children, for those who have time, for those who are okay with a quick ‘f&*k’ that means nothing. Women who enjoy sex are labelled as sluts, whores, cock-tease and more… I’m not sure about you, but I don’t want a label.

How would it make you feel to be empowered, feel sexy and alive, to ask for what you want, to feel excitement and pleasure? To be excited about sex again!

I enjoy sex, and so can you, if that is what you want!

In 2017 my world changed – all for the better. The sex became more intimate, passionate. The conversations more open. The options more varied. My relationship stronger. My desires were out in the open, not just about sex, but about life. My goals changed and I finally started to work towards them.

Here is the thing – I realised that I didn’t know what I was missing until someone put it under my nose and said – here are the opportunities you have. Here is a safe, genuine space for you to learn about sex and relationships.

WOW – how many other women are out there just accepting their sexual fate because of lack of opportunity.

Are you missing out?

How does this all work?

My strong belief is that safe, genuine information is hard to come by when it comes to sex and relationships. What you’ll be a part of will change your life, and yes it is exciting and scary, all good things take you out of your comfort zone.

So my way… I’ve worked to make the education as interesting and appealing as possible for everyone. I’ve incorporated many different scientific learnings and techniques, explain with relatable stories and share information as straightforward as possible.

But most importantly, it doesn’t have to be boring, and my way is fun and exciting! If you have a good sense of humour, you are in the right place 😊

You, Better and Best Sex – the Course

Over the 12 weeks that we are together, we will cover core sexual information (you know all that sex education that you likely missed) and how it relates to you, as an individual sexual being. These are in no particular order, and some of the content will form part of every module in the course. Here is an idea of what we’ll be chatting about together:

Be one of the first to enjoy the benefits of this amazing programme – let’s get sex positive together!

How will it work, let’s talk practicalities….

Proviso around confidentiality; What happens in course, stays in course. The teaching part of the modules will all be recorded for you to go back on, but all other person information, including participants on the calls will be anonymous. It is entirely your decision if you want others to hear your story, what you share and how.

Who are we?

Good question, if you missed it at any other point during your journey to me, my name is Jessica Staniforth and I am an Adult Sex Educator, and Clinical Sexologist In-Training. With over 1000 hour of study, and well on my way to completion of my certification with one of the top Sex Coaching experts in America, I live and breath the world of sex and relationships.

Delivering this course with me, as a co-creator is Carol Graham. She is a Psychosexual Therapist with over 10 years of expertise and founded The North Hampshire Clinic. Carol has worked with hundreds of clients, supporting them on issues and concerns around sex and relationships.