Have you ever told your partner that you love something, or faked an orgasm. I’ve known women to fake orgasms for YEARS in relationships, because at the beginning they didn’t know how to talk to their partner, as the years went on, how could they tell them?!? Not a straightforward conversation I agree! And you will know your own partner, bringing it up might make it worse. BUT it is common, it does happen, so why not start talking about things more openly now, looking to the future.
Where do you start? When is the right time? How do you open up the conversation.
Firstly, I’d like to say that there is no hard and fast rule! Sex might be universal, but how we act and feel about sex is completely individual. There is no-one like you, no-one like your partner and you know your couple dynamic the best.
However, I hope this will encourage you to start thinking about it, and that these ideas that follow will help you get started: